Obstinate Headstrong Girl Candle, Funny Austen Gift
Scent of an Obstinate and Headstrong Girl..... notes of sharp wit, quiet rebellion, and being right in the end. Personalize it with a name.
I bought this candle as a gift and my friend loved it!! The scent is lovely. It made the perfect gift and I would definitely buy again.
Kelly ..... Etsy review
Description
Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice gave us obstinate, headstrong girl, and this personalized soy candle prints the line for the reader who knows her own mind.
Austen wrote the phrase as a scolding, and readers of classical literature have worn it as a badge ever since.
- Natural soy wax blend with a clean, even burn
- Cotton wick with no zinc or lead
- Obstinate Headstrong Girl design with room to add a name or short message
- Reusable glass jar, vegan and non toxic, made with USA sourced materials
It is made for the friend who quotes Elizabeth Bennet, the daughter who argues her case like a barrister, and the book club member who always has an opinion. It is a compliment disguised as a candle.
Details & Materials
Materials: natural soy wax blend, cotton wick, reusable glass jar
Sizes: 4 oz jar 2.3 inches across and 2.5 inches tall, 9 oz jar 2.8 inches across and 3.5 inches tall
Jar options: amber or clear glass
Personalization: add a name or short message to sit alongside the Obstinate Headstrong Girl design
Made to order and shipped from the USA
Scents (nine choices, all poured in the same natural wax color)
Vanilla Bean: rich vanilla bean with warm Tonka bean and whipped cocoa
Comfort Spice: brown sugar and cinnamon stick with lemon, vanilla, and pralines
Spiced Pumpkin: spiced pumpkin and fresh ginger with warm fall spices
Fresh Balsam: balsam, crisp eucalyptus, fir branches, and cedarwood
Sea Breeze: bright citrus with lavender, cedarwood, jasmine, and a hint of oakmoss
Honeysuckle: bergamot, golden honeysuckle, jasmine, and a soft sandalwood finish
Eucalyptus Lavender: eucalyptus and lavender with earthy undertones
Pink Grapefruit: sweet pink grapefruit layered with balanced citron
Unscented: gentle natural candlelight with no fragrance
Care Instructions
Trim the wick to 1/4 inch before every burn. A short wick keeps the flame low and even and stops the glass from blackening.
- Keep a burning candle within sight, and keep it away from children and pets.
- Never burn the candle near flammable items.
- Burn on a heat resistant surface, away from drafts, vents, and ceiling fans.
- Do not burn for longer than 4 hours at a time.
- Stop burning once about 1/2 inch of wax is left in the jar.
- The jar gets hot. Let it cool completely before you move it.
Shipping & Returns
Every piece is made to order, just for you, and shipped from the USA. Most orders ship within 2 to 5 business days and arrive within 7 to 10.
If anything arrives damaged or misprinted, contact us and we will make it right. Read the full shipping policy and refund policy.
FAQ
How does personalization work?
Enter the name or short message you want when you order and we add it to the label before your candle is poured and shipped. Leave it blank for the design on its own.
Which scent should I choose?
The details tab lists the notes for each. Vanilla Bean is the cozy crowd pleaser, and Unscented is the safe pick for sensitive noses.
Is it safe to burn?
Yes. It uses a soy wax blend and a cotton wick with no zinc or lead. Follow the care tab for the cleanest, longest burn.
How long does it take to arrive?
Each candle is made to order, ships from the USA in 2 to 4 business days, and most orders arrive within 5 to 7 business days.
Lady Catherine meant it as an insult. We made it a candle.
Dear Pride and Prejudice reader,
- Sick of book candles that smell like nothing in particular?
- Gifted a candle with a slogan no real reader would claim?
- Want your shelf to say something true about you?
Most literary candles stop at the label. This one starts with the line every Pride and Prejudice reader carries, then backs it up..... natural soy wax, a cotton wick, and a label that promises notes of sharp wit, quiet rebellion, and the sweet, sweet smell of being right in the end.

Six reasons this is the Pride and Prejudice candle worth gifting
The label does the charming. The wax does the work.
The line itself
Austen wrote it as a scolding in Pride and Prejudice. Readers wear it as a badge.
Natural soy blend
A clean, even burn that does not smoke up the reading nook.
Cotton wick
No zinc, no lead, just a steady flame beside the book.
Scents for reading weather
Nine choices from Vanilla Bean to Fresh Balsam, plus unscented for scent free households.
A jar worth keeping
A natural soy wax blend with a cotton wick, no zinc or lead, in a reusable 4 oz or 9 oz glass jar, amber or clear. Add a name or short message at the options.
Gift ready
Pairs with a blanket or a mug for an instant book lover care package.
Poured to order, lit for chapters
Pick jar and scent
Amber or clear glass, in the scent that smells like your kind of evening.
We pour it to order
Hand filled soy wax, made in 2 to 5 business days and shipped from the USA.
Small batch, strong opinions
Made to order for readers, and rated like it by the readers who shop here.
This candle vs the typical book candle
| This candle | Typical book candle | |
|---|---|---|
| The label | A real Austen line with a story | A vague reading vibes slogan |
| The wax | Natural soy blend, clean burn | Mystery paraffin |
| The wick | Cotton, no zinc or lead | Whatever was cheapest |
| The jar | Reusable glass you keep | Landfill after the last burn |
| Made | Poured to order in the USA | Warehouse pallet stock |
Pride and prejudice candle questions, answered
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For the obstinate, headstrong girl on your list, even when that girl is you.
Pick your scentIf it arrives damaged or wrong, we replace it free. Just email us within 7 days of delivery.
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